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Truffle ceremony for people who feel stuck in grief and loss

A truffle ceremony doesn't work through grief in a day. Some people who feel stuck in loss do look for a safe, guided day to give their sadness room. At Stars Frequencies in Amsterdam, Rosa guides you in a small group of up to 8 people (€295 per person) or privately (€495), after a free 30-minute intro call.

Truffle ceremony for grief: when sadness gets stuck

Someone is gone. Or a relationship, a job, a future you had pictured. The world kept going, and so did you. You did what needed doing.

But the sadness found no place. Maybe you didn't cry at the funeral, or only there. Maybe you mostly feel emptiness, or anger, or nothing. Grief doesn't follow a schedule.

Some people then look for a day on which the sadness can simply be there, with someone nearby who can hold it. Not to close it off, but to feel it.

What people often recognise

  • You function, but the sadness is stuck somewhere
  • You don't cry, or you do at unexpected moments
  • You talk about the loss without feeling it
  • You feel guilty for carrying on with your life
  • There are things you never got to say
The point of view

Letting go isn't a condition. It's a result. With grief, people often tell you to give it a place. That doesn't work on command. Here the sadness can simply come first.

Who is a truffle ceremony for grief for, and who isn't it for?

A good fit if

  • Your loss isn't fresh anymore and the sadness feels stuck
  • You want room for sadness, with guidance nearby
  • You'd rather choose a private ceremony or a small group

Not a good fit if

  • Your loss is very recent and you're still in the first shock: wait, and talk it through with Rosa first
  • Your grief is so heavy that you can hardly function: your GP is the first step

Which health situations rule a ceremony out, you can read on the page about safety and contraindications.

How the day begins

Landing in your body, without commands

You arrive calmly. Rosa leads the meditation and plays the singing bowls live in the room. Your mind gets something to follow and your body can settle. Meditation and sound healing are part of every ceremony, private and duo ceremonies too. You don't have to let go of anything before you're ready.

Sadness needs time to come. So the day doesn't start with the loss, but with your body. Rosa leads the meditation and the singing bowls sound softly. You don't have to tell or retrieve anything. Whatever comes can come.

When it gets intense

What Rosa does when it gets heavy during the ceremony

A difficult moment can happen. You're not alone with it. Rosa stays in the room for the whole ceremony and there is always an emergency protocol. You can talk, move and ask Rosa to come and sit beside you. Difficult moments are part of it; they're not a sign that something is going wrong.

A lot of sadness can come, sometimes all at once. Rosa sits with you, stays as long as needed and helps you find your breath again. You don't have to stop the sadness. It can move through you.

“At the hardest moment, Rosa stayed beside me.”

Lisa V., website review, translated from Dutch
Beforehand

Intro call and screening: a conversation first

Every ceremony starts with a free 30-minute intro call. Rosa asks about your medication, your health and what feels scary to you. If a ceremony doesn't fit right now, she honestly says no. The amount is tailored to you together in the intro call.

In the intro call you tell Rosa about your loss, as much as you want. She also asks about your health and medication. If the loss is very recent, she looks with you at whether it's better to wait a little.

“The intro call put me at ease right away.”

Merel, website review, translated from Dutch

What a ceremony looks like

  • Stars Frequencies guides truffle ceremonies in Amsterdam, in a small group of up to 8 people (€295 per person) or privately (€495).
  • A ceremony day lasts about 7 hours and always includes meditation and sound healing.
  • Rosa has guided 400+ participants.
  • About half of the participants are doing it for the first time. No experience needed.
  • Truffles are legal in the Netherlands.
Questions

Questions about a truffle ceremony for grief

Can a truffle ceremony help with grief?

A truffle ceremony doesn't process grief for you and doesn't make sadness smaller. People do describe that their sadness got room during a guided day. Grief moves at its own pace. A ceremony can at most be a moment in which you let it come, with someone nearby.

What if I lose control during the ceremony?

You don't lose consciousness: you know where you are, you can talk, move and ask Rosa to come and sit beside you. For people who have tucked their sadness away for a long time, letting go on command is often the hardest part. So we don't ask for it. Meditation and sound healing give your body something to rest on, and Rosa stays in the room for the whole ceremony. Letting go isn't a condition here. If it happens, it's a result.

How long after a loss can I take part?

There's no fixed period. Shortly after a loss, a ceremony is often too much. Talk about where you are in the intro call, and Rosa will look with you for the right moment.

Can I bring something that reminds me of that person?

Ask in the intro call. Rosa looks with you at what fits your intention for the day. What else to bring is on the preparation page.

What does a truffle ceremony at Stars Frequencies cost, and how long is the day?

A group ceremony costs €295 per person, with up to 8 participants. A private ceremony costs €495; if you come as two, you pay €891 together. The day lasts about 7 hours and always includes meditation and sound healing. You start with a free 30-minute intro call.

A ceremony is not a replacement for medical or psychological care.

Read more about safety during a truffle ceremony.

Next step

Start with a conversation

Plan a free 30-minute intro call. You tell Rosa where you are, she tells you what the day looks like, and together you look honestly at whether a ceremony fits you right now.

Plan a free intro call

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